The Gospel for Real Life: Discussion #2
If you have not yet read this chapter, here are a couple of warm-up questions:
1. In this chapter, Jerry opens with this statement:
The death of Jesus Christ was the most remarkable event in all history.
On its face, at a gut level, is this what you believe? If so, what contributes to this belief? If not, what factors obscure this view of the death of the Son of God from you? (Be as specific for both of these responses as you can. If His death does not loom very large for you, that’s OK! You are definitely not alone! This is one reason that you’re reading this book, and why Jerry felt led to write this chapter.
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2. What kinds of things would make an event that happened today “world-class news” or “extremely noteworthy”?
3. Given your answer in #2, remove all the elements that involve technology (like “carried on all the major news media”) and think about how God might have used ancient phenomena to call attention to an event that He deemed important.
4. If an unsaved friend asked you to coffee, and during your time together looked deep into your eyes and asked you the following question, how would you answer: “Why did Jesus come to die?”
OK, now: Let’s read the chapter.
1. Copy 1 Peter 3:18 (quoted by Jerry on the bottom of page 22) into your journal. Now, paraphrase this verse in writing in your journal using the most personal terms you can.
2. On pages 23-24 Jerry recounts the true story of Adam’s sin as our representative First Parent. Be honest: does this seem unfair to you, that you should have to struggle with the consequences of another man’s choices? If so, consider:
- This is true for you as well. Others–your parents, your husband, and your children–have all suffered unjustly when you have chosen to do less than to love God with all of your heart and love others as yourself.
- Far from being unfair, God has always had a plan where the worst punishment for Adam’s choice to sin as our representative should fall on Jesus, who is also our representative. Jesus has endured more sorrow that any human being ever endured because Adam sinned.
- Because God allowed Adam to sin, we who have been forgiven much can love Christ much.
3. What was your reaction in reading through Jerry’s list that attempts to briefly indicate the implications of the first and second great commandments on pages 25-27? Try to take a moment to capture your honest heart reactions. Ask yourself, “Why do I react this way? What does this reaction show me about my heart towards God and Christ Jesus?”
4. Did Jerry’s discussion of the depths of your sinful nature result in discouragement and desperation? As he said, that was kind of his point:
You might be thinking by this time, “Why devote so much attention to sin? It just makes me feel guilty. I thought you were going to tell us about the unsearchable riches of Christ.” My reason is to cause us all to realize we have no place to hide… Many people erroneously think that God can just forgive our sins because He is a loving God. Nothing could be further from the truth. The cross speaks to us not only about our sin but about God’s holiness. (page 28)
Until we realize that we are worse than we dare believe, and that God is holy and unable to “just forgive” us, we will not grasp the enormity of our plight, nor the depths of the riches of Christ. Jerry is trying to help us to see both! How much of this kind of meditation is new to you? Can you, in your journal, try to express the depths of your need for God’s forgiveness? (After you try, go back and look at the lists on pages 25-27. Is there more to add to your honest, less-than-flattering description of yourself?)
5. Was it a new idea to you that God’s holiness “responds to sin with immutable and eternal hatred”? What, then do we deserve?
6. In what way does the death of Jesus on the cross display the depths of the heinousness of sin and simultaneously the depth of His love for us?
7. Jerry concludes this chapter by writing:
And it is a continuing sense of the imperfection of our obedience, arising from the constant presence and remaining power of indwelling sin, that drives us more and more as believers to an absolute dependence on the grace of God given to us through His Son, our Lord Jesus Christ.
Is this comforting to you as you survey the ways that you consistently “miss the mark” (literally, sin) as a homeschooling mom? The ongoing battle with sin (from within and without) should train us to run to (and hide in) Christ. The rest of this book helps us to see both the depths of God’s love and the only sure hope for living a holy life: complete dependence on Christ. Would you like to write out a prayer to God that you would grow in your ability to depend on Him? (If so, be sure to look for His loving answer to that prayer in days to come!)
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I was particularly encouraged by the end of chapter 2. When Bridges made the point that even our “perfect obedience” is tainted with sin, and then offering the gospel hope of being driven to the absolute dependence on the grace of God and experiencing His unsearchable riches.
I had my 4th baby almost 8 months ago. My oldest is in 2nd grade (Y2), and I have 2 kiddos in between. I feel like my heart has been in a fog the past 8 months. When Jerry went through the list of what it looked like to love God with all of our hearts, I found myself thinking “I don’t do any of that.” In this season of “fogginess”, I’ve been tempted, and fallen deeply into, anxiety and a host of other sins Jerry covers in his book Respectable Sins. The reality is, I didn’t fall into them, I have seen more clearly what was/is already in my heart. So, I was encouraged by a couple of things:
1. Even if I wasn’t in a fog, I would still need Jesus just as much.
2. Even my sin of anxiety can be used to show me that I need Him every hour. Every.single.hour.
3. There is hope that the fog will lift and I can enjoy Christ and His unsearchable riches, and that it will transfer to what I’m doing in my home day-in and day-out.
Now, I’ll move on to chapter three with a hope of the Gospel lifting the fog in the near future. praise Jesus for that!
Ashley,
First of all, THANK YOU for commenting.I was becoming a bit discouraged, wondering if anyone OUT THERE was even reading these posts, much less benefiting. So, thanks for taking the time to post!
Second: Amen, especially to #3. I’ve been reading a different book that talks about why God makes promises and then causes us to live most of our lives waiting for His sure fulfillment of them. The author made the point that it is in the waiting that we learn to love God, depend on Him, and gain a hope of Heaven, as Earth’s delights become stale, flat, and unprofitable. Waiting in utter dependence on the (very present) help of the Lord, and hoping for the fog to lift, is surely taking you in the right direction!
Just began the book today. Yes, a late start,but just learned of the club. After reading, the Lord prompted me to apologize to my 8-year old about some very selfish behavior this morning. I’m praying for more sensitivity to my own sin. Thanks Marcia for doing this.
Hi, Luellen!
Welcome! There’s no “late” about it. I purposefully did this so that we ladies could be in community even if we start the books at different times.
I’m so glad to see that the book has had immediate fruit in your life. It’s always so GOOD to see God moving in our lives!